Congratulations, he invited you out. This is your first date. You look polished and chic. You both feel a spark of chemistry. Before the first round of drinks gets to the table, you already imagine how cute your mutual kids will be. Did you invision your wedding dress and honeymoon as well? Wake up!
The first date is all about getting to know each other. You won’t move either if sex is your only mutual interest. Men DO want to have a great girlfriend, but in order to become that girlfriend he has to like your personality as well as your body.
Question NOT to ask on the first date if you are looking forward to something serious:
1) How much money do you make?
2) What car do you drive?
3) Do I look fat in this dress?
4) Are you looking for a serious relationship or just fun?
5) How many kids do you want to have?
6) When was the last time you had sex?
7) What does your medical record look like?
8) Do you date other women?
9) Do you like shopping?
10) Tell me about your ex.
Questions you SHOULD ask on the first date.
1) What are your hobbies?
2) Did the Lakers win yesterday?
3) What’s the funniest thing that ever happened to you?
4) Do you like dark beer?
5) Would you ever consider jumping with a parachute?
6) What’s your favorite joke? (Please tell me)
7) What’s your favorite band/movie?
8) If you had unlimited possibilities what would you like to do?
9) What’s the worst thing that can happen on the first date?
10) If you could have one date with any celebrity who would it be?