How would you find a good man? There is Men Search 101. Lesson 1: Where  Great men are? The most common woman-made mistake – Revealing the Secret.

What are the most important qualities in men? Well, I’ve been told that the look is not important, money will not buy happiness, health is given by God, sense of humor is not primary for family life, age is just a number, and luck doesn’t exist.

However, after talking to hundreds of women, I’ve never heard that someone’s ideal man is ugly, poor, boring, old, and a sick loser. Every woman’s IDEAL MAN is good looking (preferably tall, dark, and handsome), successful (rich), healthy, young (meaning the same age or plus/minus 5 years). Also, a guy with a great sense of humor (or at least matching her’s).

Some qualities may be modified, but any modifications are based on the searcher’s (woman who is looking) self esteem. There is a proportion – the less self esteem, the more bad qualities might be accepted.

In my opinion each and every woman is unique and deserves to meet the best man. So, we’ll leave all loser material for someone else – let’s look for a good man.

What are women’s biggest mistakes at the activity called “finding a good man?”

I’m about to reveal the secret – GOOD MEN ARE NOT WHERE WE THINK THEY ARE.

Looking for men is not any different from any other marketing “niche market search”.

Recently my friend invited me to dinner at one of the hottest restaurants in LA. The dinner was great, the restaurant was elegant, everything was perfect, except…one little detail. There were very few single men, lots of couples, and tons and tons of single women who were gorgeous. Ladies were grouped by the “girls night out” principle.  But they hardly had any fun – they were looking around and scanning each male. It looked very sad.

Ladies, the biggest mistake would be looking for single men at an expensive restaurant at evening time.  Why? Because they are going out with someone, even though this “someone” might not be the significant one. Yes, I know women who manage to meet someone this way once in a while, but you have to be very brave, skilled, and bold. Plus, never do to people what you wish they would never do to you. Can you imaging going to a restaurant with the man of your dreams, and some other woman would be performing magic tricks to get your man’s attention?

If you would like to find wealthy good looking single men, there are

Three Top Spots where you can Find a Good Man.

SPOT #1

Place – Expensive restaurants during lunch hours – you can find a man there sitting with another man or by himself.

What to wear – you wear a nice, casual, business outfit (preferably a sexy skirt with a top and a jacket). You have to look classy enough for them to pay attention. A little notebook would be a great decoration.

What else? -  Have your “legend” prepared (for example, just had a meeting at the building next door). However, remember, if you think that a stock market is another place for organic food and marketing is another sexy Italian word, then stick to a different plan.

SPOT #2

Place – First or business class of an airplane. It’s a very pricey way, but the most effective, especially if you fly overseas. First of all, the plane is bigger, so the amount of travelers is greater as well and you have more time to locate and charm your “Mr. Right”.

What to wear – It doesn’t matter what your style is, you have to look CLASSY. If you look like a sexy hooker, then your chances are close to zero – not a single good man will want to have something more than “fun” with you.

What else? – Again, have your story ready. Don’t say that you bought 8 first class tickets to find your love. Don’t laugh, I personally know one woman who spent half her savings and her whole vacation time flying between Los Angeles and Chicago. Guess what? She met her dream man on flight # 6 at the moment when she lost all expectations. They got married within a year.

SPOT #3

Top sport clubs – excellent place. I hope you don’t think that only women are looking for men. Guess what? Men do too! If you are in good, normal or at least ok shape, consider it

What to wear – invest in a few good work-out outfits – colors that make you look good, designs that will show your best assets, make up (make it natural and almost invisible).

What else - If you are completely out of shape, spend a couple months eating right and exercising first. Also, you will have to really work out at the gym – which is great for you. A woman who sits at the juice bar for hours looks too suspicious.

The most important of all – Feel Good: like attracts like. Think about it just as another great day of your life with an excellent and entertaining adventure.

Dear Ladies, please let me know what do you think! I’m looking forward to hear from you, leave a comment!