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		<title>After First Date &#8211; 32 Reasons Why He Didn&#8217;t Call</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[You just had a great date. There was a spark of chemistry, a great conversation, tons of compliments, and hints on many more great dates.
 
However, he never called again. Why?
I’m sure every woman has at least one story like this in her “little dating book”.
What happened after the first date? Was it a bad first [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-258" title="After First Date" src="http://www.shedates.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/After-First-Date.jpg" alt="After First Date" width="274" height="137" />You just had a great date. There was a spark of chemistry, a great conversation, tons of compliments, and hints on many more great dates.</p>
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<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><strong>However, he never called again. Why?</strong></p>
<p>I’m sure every woman has at least one story like this in her “little dating book”.<br />
What happened after the first date? Was it a bad first date? Why didn&#8217;t he call?<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">1)      He was just relaxing on this date.</span></strong></p>
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Some men just relax over a nice dinner and conversation and they don’t mean to turn this great time into something serious. Don’t get upset. If he said that there is no future, what would it look like? Count this as a new experience.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">2)      You two have different “speeds.”</span></strong></p>
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If you think that you have to date for three months (as your grandma taught your mom) and he asks “your place or mine” then you are on totally different pages.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">3)      He got scared.</span></strong></p>
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Scared of what? Well, just got scared. Feelings, responsibility, competition, or luck of them as well as your beauty or own sexual problems. Just you as “super woman” in his life can sound scary to him.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">4)      You weren’t ethical enough.</span></strong></p>
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You asked to go to a very expensive restaurant or were too curious about what car he drives (and he took a taxi). You laughed at him when he couldn’t use chopsticks or commented sarcastically on his mutual friends. Be careful, men are too sensitive.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">5)      You talked too much about yourself.</span></strong></p>
<p>He doesn’t need to know that your grandma got married five times, that your boss is a jerk, that your best friend dates a Chinese guy, and that your cat is about to give birth<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">6)      You were quiet as a fish.</span></strong></p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"></span></strong>Well, if it happened once, just forgive yourself, but if it&#8217;s your standard behavior…you have to see a therapist.</p>
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<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">7)      He was a person who specializes on “tests.”</span></strong><br />
He is testing women just to prove to himself that not one woman deserves HIM (because he is a gift).<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">8)      You counted on a serious relationship with him.</span></strong><br />
Men are hunters, so as soon as they sense a trap, they disappear.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">9)      You invaded his personal territory.</span></strong><br />
Examples: You sit too close, you went through his phone when he went to the bathroom, took his gold lighter without permission, asked “so what days do you go to the gym? Oh really? What time?” – this would be a major red light.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">10)   You were bored, and he felt it.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">11)   He got afraid of your position</span></strong></p>
<p>– do you know that men between 30 and 40 years old think that the worst occupation for women are (hold tight) dentists, fitness instructors, executives in big companies, police officers and the leading one is… THERAPISTS (sad, huh).</p>
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<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">12)   His mom didn’t like you</span></strong></p>
<p>– if he took you to his mom, you gotta be happy that things didn’t work out.<br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">13)   Your social status is not good enough for him.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">14)   He couldn’t handle your social status.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">15)   You didn’t try to impress him, but it was obvious that you are too much for him.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">16)   Your date was in a wrong place.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">17)   Your date happened at a wrong time.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">18)   You were a &#8220;smart mouth.&#8221;</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">19)   You confessed that you are divorced and you have kids.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">20)   You have different view points towards life.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">21)   You implied that you had too many men.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">22)   You started to make mutual plans.<br />
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23)   Your sense of humor was too much for him.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">24)   You brought your friend to a date.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">25)   You lied about yourself.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">26)   You acted too sexy.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">27)   You criticized yourself too much.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">28)   Your tempers are different.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">29)   You are not his type.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">30)   You are not emotionally available.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">31)   He is not emotionally available.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">32)   It just didn’t work out –</span></strong></p>
<p> well, he lost your card, his phone got stolen, he went om a trip and got stuck there for 2 years. You went to have a lunch with a co-worker and he hugged you while HE drove by. He called you and your sister joked that you are getting married this weekend. Well, there are too many stories like this and when he didn’t call, we hope that he is really on number 32.</p>
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