Dear Ladies,
Today I’m going to talk about the first date at a restaurant where he invited you for dinner.
Have you ever wondered why he didn’t call after your first date? Especially when you ended up almost having sex in the car? Well, the good news is that there is always another time, another date, or another man. Anyways, I suggest not to worry. This is life and life is about lessons. I figured out the “perfect first date outfit” by the long way of trial and errors (and I’m talking about my own errors as well as my friends and clients).
Don’t get me wrong, the first date is not about what you wear – it’s about how do you feel, behave, and talk. It’s about chemistry and energy. However, your look IS important because chemistry is partially based on your look. When a man says that he’s attracted to your beautiful soul and kind heart, I hardly doubt that your heart is inside of a 500 pound tattooed body with a face full of wrinkles and pimples.
OK, back to the first date. If he invites you to the restaurant, I suggest two main choices. Let me explain why. There are two main winning looks – classy and trendy (I hope you understand that being classy can be even more sexier than anything else). Even if you meet a 21 year old guy, trust me, if he will see you looking Classy Chik, he will fall for you right away.
OK, back to our First Date Outfit
1) If the restaurant (Lounge) is upscale, wear a little black dress.
2) If the restaurant is not that trendy and expensive, nice jeans with a classy top are a great idea.
HOW TO WEAR
The Little Black Dress
Has to cover your assets (you’ll have plenty of time to show them later). Yes, ladies, remember mystery is the key. Make sure that if your dress is too short, it covers your top and preferably has sleeves. Leave all fancy cuts for special occasions.
Is not supposed to spark like Christmas tree toy.
Wear hills, but no open shoes with tights. Hills will make you look slimmer and your legs longer. Do not wear 8 inch hills – leave it either for pole dance class or for women who wear them as a uniform (you know who I’m talking about).
Wear one piece of jewelry. If you have huge diamonds – do not wear them till date number 5. Expensive jewelry usually scares men away.
Jeans and Top
Jeans are supposed to be your real, not your dream size – nothing can be unsexier than pieces of meat hanging from your waist line.
If jeans are pretty classy, your top can show some cleavage. Make sure that “some” do not look like the bikini top. You can always wear those to a club at your girls night out when you have no intention to start serious relationships.
Leave too ripped jeans for the beach, or hanging out with friends at the bar.
Hills are the way to go, but again, make sure that they look classy and haven’t been designed to go to a movie premier.
Dear Ladies, Please leave a comment and let me know what do you think! What First Date outfit worked for YOU?
